May 8, 2025

Who's the Loudest, Meanest, Messiest, and Funniest? | We Are the Hansons

Who's the Loudest, Meanest, Messiest, and Funniest? | We Are the Hansons

In this laugh-packed episode of We Are the Hansons, we’re calling each other out—lovingly, of course! Who’s the loudest when things go wild? Who leaves the biggest mess? Who delivers the sass? And who cracks everyone up? It’s time to playfully expose our family dynamics and crown the ultimate champs (or culprits) of chaos. Tune in for funny confessions, sibling rivalries, and a whole lot of love wrapped in noise, jokes, and laundry piles.

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Hey, everyone, welcome back to We Are the Hansens, the

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podcast where we talk about family, life, laughter, and everything

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in between. I'm your host, Maya Hanson, and today we're

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getting real honest and a little silly with a topic

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that's bound to spark some playful arguments. In our house.

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Who's the loudest, messiest, meanest, and funniest in the family

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With thirteen kids, you better believe we've got some top

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contenders for each category. This episode is part fun, part

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family psychology, and all about celebrating the chaos that makes

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our household uniquely ours. You might be asking why we

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are doing this. Honestly because it's fun, but also because

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these labels give us insight. The loudest might be the

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most passionate, messiest, maybe the most creative, the meanest, possibly

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the strongest advocate, and the funniest while they keep us

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all sane. This is a love letter to our kids' personalities,

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even the challenging ones. And if you're a parent, this

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might help you reflect on your own wild bunch at home.

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Let's break it down. These aren't a word, they're acknowledgements

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of the energy each kid brings to the family. The loudest.

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Without a doubt, this kid is the walking megaphone in

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our house. Whether they're cheering, tattling, or just existing. A

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full volume silence is not an option, but let's be honest.

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They bring energy that rallies the whole family. I would

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have to say would be Morgan. Granted she doesn't do

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a lot of tattling because now she's an adult, but

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she does a lot of cheering and full volume singing.

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I would have to say that you could walk into

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our house and regardless who you are, you would find

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her singing her heart out. So I do have to

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give Morgan the loudest, the messiest. There's always one. The

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trail of toys, the pile of clothes that never makes

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it to the hamper, the craft supplies that somehow got

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glued to the dog. The kid lives in a tornado.

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But their creativity is unmatched. I would have to give

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that to my Analin, because that girl will leave her

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clothes wherever she's at. When she changes, she will leave

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her mess of paint or you know, clippings from her papers,

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from cutting up stuff wherever it's at. And it's like

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pulling teeth to get that girl to clean up her mess.

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But she's definitely the messiest, the meanest. This one's touchy,

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but hear me out. Sometimes mean is misunderstood leadership. This

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child is assertive, very blunt, and fearcfully protective. They might

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dish out tough love, but underneath it there's often a

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softy And I'm going to have to say that would

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be my torn. She is definitely very blunt, and sometimes

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she can say some pretty rude stuff. I've always corrected

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her and tried to get her to like chill out,

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not to say the stuff she says. But yesterday, as

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I was listening to her outside playing with her friends,

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I heard her say this. She was playing with her

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niece and her friend was mad because she was playing

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with her niece and not her. And mind you, Torrin

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was trying to get her friend to play with her

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niece too with Torren, and the little girl did not

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want to Torren. I hear her say to her friend,

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my niece means more to me than you, so if

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you don't like it, you can go home. And I

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couldn't believe what I was hearing. Guys, I just couldn't

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believe it. I was in shock that she said that,

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but she is pretty bold and blunt about it, and

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that's how she is, you know. I maybe she gets

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it from me because I'm very blunt and honest. I

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don't know. I think I've taught them like, you need

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to say it how it is, and yeah, you're gonna

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hurt some feelings. But if it's truth and you're being

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honest about it and that's how you feel, sometimes the

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truth hurts. Funniest. Every family needs a comic relief, and

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this one delivers. Whether it's intentional jokes or just the

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way they think and speak, this kid cracks everyone up,

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even during meltdowns. Future stand up comic goes to Keenan,

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that boy is the family clown. He is the family jokester.

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He makes us all laugh. And what can I say?

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I mean, he's fun, he's blunt, He's just Keenan. Let's

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There are some honorable mentions in there. Most dramatic would

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have to be Maddie, you know it's always Oscar ready.

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Most chill, I think would have to be Colin could

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sleep through a fire drill. The kid is just chill.

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Most likely to start a sibling war, master button pusher Gavin,

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and most likely to end a sibling war. The family

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therapist in training, I would have to say, would probably

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go to Logan or Adam, because those two they're very

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you know, business like, you know, just kind of chill. Tristan,

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I would have to say he would probably be more

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to end the sibling war, just because Tristan's very quiet.

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Tristan isn't like loud, he's just, you know, there, he's

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very he thinks before he speaks type of kid. So

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those three would have to get most likely to end

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the sibling war. Kenna is pretty chill, so that I

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would give to her as well. What makes families great

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isn't how alike we are, it's how we balance each

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other out. The loudest kids challenge us to listen, the

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messy one teach us patients, the mean ones make us resilient,

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and the funny ones they remind us not to take

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life too seriously. These personality extremes actually shape the family culture.

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They teach adaptability, compassion, and appreciation for each other's differences.

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So where do we land? We land in the middle

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of beautiful chaos. We might not always agree on who's

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the loudest or messiest, but we will always value how

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each child shows up in the family. They are who

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they are and we love them for it. Try this

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exercise with your own family, use humor, keep it kind,

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and see what comes up. These categories are just conversation starters,

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but they can open up some meaningful insight and probably

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a lot of laugh. Thanks for hanging out with me

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on We Are the Hansens. Be sure to share, subscribe

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to our YouTube channel and let us know who's the

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loudest or funniest in your family. Until next time, keep laughing, loving,

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and parenting through the chaos. Thanks for tuning in to

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We Are the Hansens.