Dec. 2, 2024

We are the Hansons show #1 A little about us!

We are the Hansons show #1 A little about us!

Get to know Jeremy and his wife Myia, the dynamic duo behind this honest, heartfelt, and often hilarious look at marriage, parenting, and life in a big family. With 22 years f marriage, 13 kids, 3 grandchildren (and 1 on the way), they've seen it all- from triumphs to trials, and everything in between. In this debut episode, they share their journey of love, growth, and resilience, offering relatable stories, practical tips, and unflitered conversations about navigating modern family life. Weather you're looking for insporation, advice, or just a good laugh, We Are The Hansons deliers a fresh, authentic perspective on what it means to build a family and keep the spark alive. Hit play and join the Hanson family adventure!


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Welcome to We Are the Hansons, the podcast where marriage, parenting,

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and the chaos of raising thirteen kids collide. Join us,

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a husband and wife duo with over twenty two years

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of love and laughter as we've dived into the highs,

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the lows, and everything in between. From tips and tricks

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to keep your sanity to raw, honest moments that remind

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us that we're all human. This is your front row

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seat to family life Hansen style. Let's navigate this wild

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ride together. I am Jeremy Hansen. I'm the husband in

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this affair, and you.

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Are Maya Hansen.

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Yeah, may and Jeremy, Jeremy and my. I don't know.

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I like Jeremy and Maya. What do you like better?

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I am Jeremy.

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So this we've had a lot that kind of brought

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us to this. I mean, we've both been lucky enough

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to spend twenty two years together. We were friends before that.

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Quite a good length of time before that.

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Yeah, I just you know, looking back at it now,

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because life gets in the way and you never really

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have a time to reflect this podcast. I've done a lot,

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a lot a lot of podcasts, thousands of podcasts, hours

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and hours, you know, thousands of hours of broadcasting. But

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I think this is my funnest because I've never ever

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actually had a chance to do a podcast with my

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wife before.

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I agree.

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So I had my cousin the other day. He said,

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you know, it may be beneficial for people to hear

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you and Maya talk about things because our marriage, like

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every other marriage, I think, has.

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Had its struggles.

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I agree, And.

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I think that you know, with kids, thirteen kids, and

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we'll get into that. I hear a lot of excuses

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around the country, but I don't know if their excuses

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about not having kids or having problems with the kids

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they have, or if it's they just don't know how

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to do it. And when it comes to me and you,

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nobody gave us a manual.

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Nobody, for sure.

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I guess the closest manual we had was probably the Bible.

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It was probably the places that I got wisdom, the

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places that you got wisdom and support, you know, both

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of us.

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Grandma. Maybe you think.

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Grandma, Grandma for sure had a big hand in it.

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Yeah, Grandma was the tie that bind and I miss

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her and I love her and I sure do appreciate her,

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and you know, everybody else in our life.

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But you know, for us, that was a big one,

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wouldn't you say?

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I agree?

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So we are the Hansons. It's this, it's this journey.

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You know.

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Not only do we have the thirteen kids, not only

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have we been together for twenty two years, we also

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we're self employed and sometimes that can present the challenge

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all in itself.

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It's been a wild ride for sure.

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Yeah, it's it seems like it's feast or famine. And

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you know, you always, you always get to the point

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where you think that you need to be, but then

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something out of left field comes.

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Every time.

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Yep, every single time.

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We've been able to you know, sidestep some of them.

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Some of them we've you know, crashed head on, but

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we've always gotten through them, no matter how bleak it looked,

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no matter how like I mean, here's a story, folks.

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We were broke, but we were both working. This is

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before we were entrepreneurs. We were both working. I was

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working at as a manager of a machine shop and.

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I was a housekeeper assistant, had a housekeeper at a hotel.

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And I mean we were busting our butts.

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You know.

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This is back in the early two thousands, and we

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weren't making enough money. I was paying child support and

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you know, pretty much after paying child support to my

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ex wife, I was bringing in what one hundred and

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fifty dollars a week. Yeah, And I mean I was

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making good money and I was putting in about sixty hours.

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A week, no more.

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But they just they took every dime we had, and

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we got to the point where, like Friday was payday

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for both of us. It was a Thursday, our electric

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had been shut off. We had just enough gas that

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I could make it to work the next day. We

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had what did we have in our freezer?

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We had ring, baloney or smoke sausage.

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Smoke sausage, yeah.

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Green beans, and I think that's.

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Pretty much it in velvida.

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Oh yeah, we had a block of alvida.

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So now we had a grill, thank goodness, we had

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to grill. What have we done without a grill? But

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we had an old tree in our yard. Now we

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didn't have any charcoal, we didn't have any lighter fluid.

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We had newspaper, and we had.

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Old wood if you remember that right.

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We had some aluminum foil, and uh, We're like, you know,

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how are we going to do this? And maya takes

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out the food and what what did you make?

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Like a boy scout dinner type thing.

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Yeah, it was put the green beans in there, you know,

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put the summer sausage or smoke sausage in there, put

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the velvida in there. And now keep in mind, we

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had been pinching our pennies for days. It wasn't just

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like Thursday came, We're like, oh, we're out of money. No,

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we'd been hungry. I would say hungry, we'd been eating.

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But we always made sure that our kids ate first. Okay,

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they always had and when it came to somebody sacrificing,

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it was both of us. And I would say, probably

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you more than me, just because that's the person you were.

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But we made that. We started a fire in the grill.

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We put those in aluminum foil and we ate them

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and we sat in the dark in our house and

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ate those camping. It was like camping, and we were

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really trying to make the best out of what we had.

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But it was hard, don't you think.

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Yeah, I mean it was with the kids, with you,

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with us both working. It was so frustrating. And here

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we are, we're trying to live the American dream. I'm

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bringing home one hundred and fifty three eighty that's what

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it was. One hundred and fifty three dollars and eighty

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cents every week.

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That's it.

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Our rent was six point fifty at that time, you remember, yep.

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So we ate that and then the next day came

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along and we both got paid and we paid the

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bills and we were almost broke. But we got a call,

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and I don't remember where the call was from, but

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it was somebody asking if you wanted to clean something struck.

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It was a trucking company, and that's that's what set

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our journey off to be entrepreneurs.

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Yep. We both cleaning company.

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Yeah, we both literally we were still working. But we

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started this company because we got a call because somebody

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had said that, Hey, I know this girl, Maya Hanson.

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She does a bang up job cleaning for us over here.

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Give her a call. So you go over there and

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you start cleaning, and I don't even think you knew

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what to charge at that time.

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You were just like, I'm going to go do this.

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We need the money.

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So you go over there and do that and you

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come back because at the time, I think I think

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our cell phones were shut off at that time. Yep,

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maybe if somebody came over to us. I can't remember

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how it exactly went, but we were in dire financial straits,

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not because we were being lazy, but because every time

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we would try to do something, another door would get

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slammed in our face.

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We weren't prideful.

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We went up and we tried to get help from

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the county and what they told us was you make

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too much money. And I was like, what do you

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mean we make too much money? Well, you see, they

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count the money that they actually take from you, whether

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it's child supports, taxes, whatever, they count that money.

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So we didn't qualify. You remember that, yep?

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I do remember that didn't qualify for nothing.

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No, So we're sitting there and like we're trying to

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live our best life. We're trying to do this and

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you go clean this trucking company and I think you

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made three hundred and fifty dollars for cleaning it. And

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it took you a couple of days. I mean you

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were really busting but disgusting.

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It was dirty.

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And then after you were done with that, they're like, hey,

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can do you do floors? And you came and asked

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me about it, and I said, yeah, we do floors.

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I'd never done a floor in my life ever, but

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I knew that I knew somebody that didn't know how

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to do floors. Do you remember that?

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I do remember that.

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And we went over.

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There and I told them I'd remember what it was

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five or six hundred bucks to strip and wax their floor,

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and I had no idea what I was doing none.

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We figured it out.

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Well, we figured it out and it was fabulous and

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they were happy with it. And that's originally how we

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started our new business. We were literally it was definitely

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a gift from God. I mean it was a blessing

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from God to have that happen because we literally, what.

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Two more weeks, we probably would have lost our home.

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YEP.

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I don't know how we would have continued to feed

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our kids. But the thing is we always did it, always,

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and we've had some trials and tribulations, not unlike any

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other family, but I think that when you have thirteen kids,

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you start to have a multitude of the same problems

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and they just get bigger and bigger and bigger. And

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what I've learned is when you have a team me

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and her, it wasn't always me and it wasn't always her.

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We did things together, and we figured things out together,

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and when there was a problem, we felt the pain together.

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And I think some of that pain actually helped us

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get through being married, wouldn't you say? I mean, I

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think that our relationship was forged in the hard times

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made us.

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Enjoy the good times even more.

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It's like a train wreck.

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It literally was like a train wreck. You know, there's

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certain things that we don't need to get into on

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this podcast, but I do want to get into as

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many things as we can, like the raw feelings that

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you choose to share them that I choose to share,

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because I think that we can help couples. I think

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we can help parents. I think we can help entrepreneurs

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when it seems crazy to do it. Like I can't

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tell you how many times we had our kids come

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with us. We'd be working second shift. We started doing

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churches and we do daycares and things like that, and

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we always paid our kids. But we didn't have babysitters,

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so and none of the kids at that time were

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old enough to babysit for us. So they would come

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with and they would work, and I mean they would

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work from a small age and some people might say, well,

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that's child slave labor.

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But we kids enjoyed it though.

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They enjoyed it.

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And the thing is is they got paid exactly what

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we'd pay somebody else. And our kids are terrific workers.

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They care about people. They they work really hard, they

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work smart, and I think a lot of that has

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to do with the experiences that they had when we

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were younger.

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I agree.

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I mean, we start off working and you keep going

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and keep going and tell I mean just like any

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other person.

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So but we had we had really really good times

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financially as well. I can remember our first big check.

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Do you remember our first big check?

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M yeah, a little bit.

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Okay, folks, So let me let me set the stage

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for you. We've got four boys from my previous marriage.

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We've got two of our own boys and a daughter okay,

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and we're seeing them picking them up, my oldest daughter also,

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and we're sitting there we're trying to get big where

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I get that weird stage where hey, we really want

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to make some big money, but I don't know how

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we're going to do it. So we get involved with

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this company named Conway Trucking. You remember that. I do

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remember that, okay, and this was big and there is

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something too. Sometimes you got to fake it till you

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make it. Okay, the first time that we ever did

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Conway and we told them, they're like, well, we have

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seven lots and we need to do to do them

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all in one day. And I was like, I don't

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know how we're going to do it. What do we

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have three employees at that time? Yeah, So we sent

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three people down to go start washing in Milwaukee. We're

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up in Lacrosse or the Tuma area, and in two days.

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We did all of them.

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Okay, but it took every dime that we had and

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we thought, we didn't know that there was a hold

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on the pay. So we did seven different lots of

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Conway trucks, which was a lot of trucks, trailers, pressure.

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Washing and we find out.

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We go into the next week and they're like, okay,

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we put it in forty five days, you'll get a check.

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You remember that.

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I do remember that. We were freaking out.

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Yeah, I mean, for once we knew we had to check.

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What was the first time, like twenty eight thousand dollars

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something like that, and it was crazy and.

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We had these people. We had to pay for these people.

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We were dead tired, by the way, because we were

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doing all of our other stuff at the same time.

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And we find this out and the last week. You know,

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everybody always thinks all these business owners, they got money,

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they got money.

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We're running on nothing, I mean nothing.

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We're having peanut butter and jelly, and we're having fun

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with our kids talking about, oh, you love put butter

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and jelly, and you know, to me, it's like, you know,

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I could probably go the rest of my life without

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having another peanut butter and jelly.

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Ever, how about you, Yeah, it's nasty.

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I mean it was the same thing like, uh oh,

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our electric might get cut off, uh oh, our insurance

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payments do it. Everything came pushing up to that point, and.

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We're broke as broke can be.

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If our kids would have said, hey, we want a

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twenty five cent ice cream, we wouldn't have been able

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to affod.

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No.

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No, I mean, there was a dairy queen, you know,

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a couple of blocks from us, and that was something

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we really enjoyed. But we purposely did things to keep

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the kids's mind off excuse me of that, And then

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we got the check. You remember that I do, and

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you remember the freedom that it gave us. And we

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you know, we did take the kids to dairy Queen.

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You know, we get that big of a check. We

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replenished everything else because now you're borrowing, you know, like

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calling the chemical place and saying, hey, I need this,

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I'm good for it. You know, give me forty five

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days and they grumble a little bit, and then you.

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Know they'd always do it.

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But that was the first time that I believe that

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in our relationship we had any sort of financial freedom.

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I agree. I mean.

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It's been rough and it's not been easy, for sure.

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Yeah, I agree.

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So my wife decided she wanted to do wear the

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hansens to do things to take away from I think,

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and you'll have to tell me if I'm right about this.

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I've done political podcasting for as long as I can remember.

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I used to spend hours upon hours upon hours doing it.

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I did it full time for a while broadcasting, and

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you kind of felt like I fell away from the

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family a little bit.

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You did explain that, well, just like you're always on

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the radio, you're always busy, and it was just me and.

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The kids, and and and you had a problem with me,

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like if a microphone happened to get sent to the house.

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That was all the time, yeah, or you know audio stuff.

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And I think every guy that's in podcasting and broadcast,

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I think they've all been through that. But we went

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through a lot of hard times.

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You know.

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You go through these kids that we have and we

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love them all. We've got Adam, Okay, Then we've got Courtney,

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and we got Logan. Then we've got Colin, and then

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we've got Keenan, and then we've got Peyton, and then

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we have Na, Then we have Morgan, then we have Tristan,

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then we have Gavin, then we have Madison, then we

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have Torn. Then we have anline okay, and that's the

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handsome family in chronological order.

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And then our anline. She's been our little miracle.

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And she was a miracle they told us. And I

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don't want to get too personal here, but I'm just

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going to tell you what the doctors told us. She

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had a little bit of problem with Torn having Torn,

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and there was there was some i don't know what

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you call it, female issues, some birthing whatever the word is.

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And they said, man, your uterus is janked up. You're

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never gonna have a kid again. That's that's what they

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told us. And you know, for us, we didn't really

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care as long as we could take care of our kids.

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I think we would have had fifty I.

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Mean, do you agree, maybe not that many, but.

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You know, we've had a wonderful life in twenty two years.

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You know, as you get old, do you start to

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see that, you know, the beauty is not just in

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the good times. There's beauty in every time. And sometimes

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it takes a little bit of wisdom to look through

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the hard times to know that this this two shall pass.

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Because when you're sitting there, you know, I remember the

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biggest thing with you at the very beginning was Adam So,

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our oldest son that we took in. He went and

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he wanted to be a marine. So and he hadn't

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been away from us for very long and his you know,

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two years in Japan and he was doing his thing,

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he was becoming a man, doing his thing, and that

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was very hard for you not to talk to him.

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Yep, it was.

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It was tough because you see somebody and you talk

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to somebody every day and then you're pretty much cut off.

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You can't talk to.

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Him, right and Now when I met you, I'm gonna

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I'm gonna rewind here a little bit so people can

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understand where we're at. We have a blended family. I

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have a beautiful half black daughter named Morgan, and I'll

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tell you since she was in you. You were actually

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what six weeks pregnant when I started dating you. Correct, Now,

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we had been friends before that. I'm twenty four, you're eighteen.

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You're pregnant. The sperm donor just runs off, says I

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don't want it, I don't want responsibility. Yep, and just

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h takes off and just kind of left you holding

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the bag.

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Correct, Okay, And that was never the intention.

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I mean, you know when when teenagers are teenagers, they're gonna,

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they're gonna do their thing, and you know, forget the consequences.

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But it just it is what it is. It was

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just part of life.

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And at the time when me and you were friends,

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we were actually talking on I can remember this Wisconsin

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chat eight Do.

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You remember that?

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Yeah? If I do, Yahoo.

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So my ex.

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Wife and I had separated, and we'd been separated at

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that point for I don't know six seven months when

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I started talking to you, and you would keep me

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up I had all the kids with me, and you

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would keep me up literally before I had to get

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the kids up, get them off the school or to

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the babysitters, and go to work. And I just remember

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I was like, God, I really really like talking to

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this girl. And on the side, note she's pretty hot too,

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because you know, I knew my ex wife and I

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knew we were over at that point. I really wasn't

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a big drinker, but my ex wife was a big,

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big drinker, and she had kind of moved on and

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I had, you know, I was still in the same house,

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but I was extremely lonely. And I remember you started

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calling me Prince Charming, and that just kind of flipped

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a switch.

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Why would you do that?

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Friends Charming? I don't even remember. I don't I don't

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remember why I started calling. Maybe it's because you were

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charming at that time.

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I just, you know, it's just my charming personality. I

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think it just never goes away.

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I don't know.

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But you know, people ask us all the time, literally

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like we're still pretty young.

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I'm forty six, she's forty.

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With all these kids, you know, being entrepreneurs, I mean,

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always going, always doing stuff. How do you have time

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for each other. How do you How have you stayed

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together this long? And I guess I've never really thought

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about that other than the fact that me and you,

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as we were talking king, as we were friends, we

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both knew that we wanted a large family. Yep, we

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both knew that, you know, we kind of wanted to

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be entrepreneurs, more me than you on that that was

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a dream of mine. But I think that you supported

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that dream for me and then found out that you

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liked it too.

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Yeah, I would say so. I mean, I like doing

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my own thing. I like being my own boss. I

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like to be able to go when I want to go, And.

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I mean, you know, I think it's I think it's

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been good for our children seeing that. But that's part

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of we are the Hansons, you know, the things that

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we did that kept I mean it sounds kind of cliche,

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but the spark alive. You know, how did you get

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through the arguments.

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That you had?

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How did you, you know, have enough respect for each

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other to do this to do that?

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How did you get through the ad fights?

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Everybody has them, but nobody knows how to get through

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them anymore. Nobody, nobody understands that type of thing, and

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I think that we are the Hansens. We want to

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give back all the knowledge and wisdom that's worked for

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us to people that don't have a handbook, that don't

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have a Bible, and that don't have a supporting cast

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like family or a grandmother to sit there and help

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you alonger in those times.

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Not only that we want to we want to show

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how real life is not every life is perfect. There

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is no such thing as a perfect life.

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No, but but happiness can come from a lot of

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different places.

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You know.

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The first thing was Adam and uh, you know, then

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we go through my son Logan moved in with us

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for a while and you know, he ended up moving

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out and there was turmoil there and uh, you know,

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being reintroduced to my daughter that I hadn't seen for

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a long time. Courtney, If you start going through all

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these things, every single one of them had different issues

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that we dealt with. You know, you get down to

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our son Gavin and he started a fire inside of

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a metal shed and his wrestling coach happened to be

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the sheriff and showed up, and those types of stories

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we can all laugh about now, but in the moment,

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it's something really crazy. Then our daughter Madison. You know,

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she's got a a cyst that grew in a bundle

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of nerves, a tumor and had to be cut out

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by a cancer surgeon when she was held eleven, when

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she was eleven years old.

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Scary stuff to the great, big, huge.

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Things like our daughter Aniline, where we we said in

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the Neeq for eighty six days, I saw more death

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in the nie Que than I ever care to see again. Ever,

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I felt the biggest blessings I've ever had ever coming home.

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And you see the.

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Part of life that you take for granted that people

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are praying for on their knees there, and it's those

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types of things. There was a time when me and

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you felt so distant. We were close to getting a

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divorced at one time, and it just, you know, having

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the beliefs that we have and being able to work

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through the hard times, and not only that, we can't

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take credit all for ourselves, the people like Pastor Jeff

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that's been around, those influential people, the goals that we

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set for ourselves, and the blessings that we've had with

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00:26:58.200 --> 00:27:03.039
our children, I think to define our life. We've done

487
00:27:03.200 --> 00:27:06.920
a lot of just awesome things the entrepreneurs side of

488
00:27:06.920 --> 00:27:07.279
our life.

489
00:27:07.319 --> 00:27:09.880
Like you have a food truck.

490
00:27:10.319 --> 00:27:17.720
Yeah, tell people about it fresh seafood and we just go.

491
00:27:17.759 --> 00:27:20.599
When we traveled the Louisiana, we have stuff flowing.

492
00:27:20.400 --> 00:27:22.079
In and it's Chicago.

493
00:27:23.319 --> 00:27:26.599
We meet people, we hear a lot of stories and

494
00:27:26.640 --> 00:27:30.559
it's just it's one of those awesome things. And this

495
00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:35.519
first show we're both coffin and she's got a running nose.

496
00:27:35.839 --> 00:27:37.519
It's just one of those things. We had time to

497
00:27:37.599 --> 00:27:41.000
do it today, so we're doing it today. But you know,

498
00:27:41.039 --> 00:27:43.880
we are going to make this a little bit more formal.

499
00:27:44.240 --> 00:27:45.839
We're going to talk about these things, but we're going

500
00:27:45.880 --> 00:27:48.920
to take an issue by issue. We want to talk

501
00:27:48.920 --> 00:27:53.680
about parenting. We want to talk about relationships, we want

502
00:27:53.680 --> 00:27:57.880
to talk about entrepreneurialism. We want to talk about living

503
00:27:58.279 --> 00:28:02.279
your best life at whatever that case may be. And

504
00:28:02.359 --> 00:28:07.160
you know, we want to offer a place for people

505
00:28:07.200 --> 00:28:09.920
to reach out when they have questions that we're going

506
00:28:09.960 --> 00:28:11.480
to do our best to give you the best answer

507
00:28:11.559 --> 00:28:13.960
that we can tell people how to get a hold.

508
00:28:13.799 --> 00:28:17.839
Of us, well, you can find us on Facebook. We

509
00:28:17.920 --> 00:28:23.519
are the Hansens and we also have a TikTok. We

510
00:28:23.559 --> 00:28:26.720
are the Hansens and then you can reach us at

511
00:28:26.759 --> 00:28:28.440
our emails.

512
00:28:28.640 --> 00:28:32.519
We are the Hansens Show at gmail dot com.

513
00:28:33.240 --> 00:28:37.720
And the cool thing is that I like is we

514
00:28:37.799 --> 00:28:39.960
do some pretty cool stuff that you don't see anywhere else.

515
00:28:40.079 --> 00:28:42.279
Like you were just on the other day doing what

516
00:28:43.119 --> 00:28:44.200
making lefto weren't you?

517
00:28:44.319 --> 00:28:46.240
Yep? We were making lefts on cookies?

518
00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:49.440
Oh yeah, a different day. You were doing cookies.

519
00:28:50.440 --> 00:28:53.119
Because I tried to come in and literally, folks, I

520
00:28:53.160 --> 00:28:57.960
wanted one fingerful of chocolate chip cookie dough, Just one fingerful,

521
00:28:58.000 --> 00:29:02.160
That's all I wanted. And my daughter almost burned my

522
00:29:02.200 --> 00:29:04.599
finger down just because I wanted to get a little

523
00:29:04.599 --> 00:29:05.200
bit of cookie.

524
00:29:05.400 --> 00:29:07.480
Oh not just a little bit of cookie. You were

525
00:29:07.799 --> 00:29:09.119
trying to get a lot of cookie.

526
00:29:10.119 --> 00:29:12.880
No, anybody that knows me knows that I'm not a

527
00:29:12.920 --> 00:29:13.519
sweets guy.

528
00:29:13.680 --> 00:29:16.480
Oh yeah, right, yeah.

529
00:29:16.599 --> 00:29:21.440
But it is the life's path that we want to

530
00:29:21.440 --> 00:29:24.480
talk about. It's how to better yourself, how to help

531
00:29:24.519 --> 00:29:27.200
your children. And that's one wonderful thing that I've got

532
00:29:27.200 --> 00:29:30.640
to say. Every single one of our kids now in

533
00:29:30.720 --> 00:29:36.240
the house, we only have four kids now. All the

534
00:29:36.240 --> 00:29:38.160
rest the nine other kids are all.

535
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:41.279
Out on their own and they're all doing well. For themselves.

536
00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:47.400
They're all moral children, they all fear God, they're all

537
00:29:47.440 --> 00:29:51.559
hard workers. They're all doing well for themselves, living their

538
00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:54.440
own lives and going through their own problems and dealing

539
00:29:54.440 --> 00:29:57.000
with things like that. But I think that's what we

540
00:29:57.039 --> 00:29:57.799
want out of life.

541
00:29:58.640 --> 00:29:59.559
They also want to.

542
00:30:02.519 --> 00:30:06.880
Pretty much take you through our ups and downs and

543
00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:11.079
tell you what we've gone through. And if you need

544
00:30:11.119 --> 00:30:13.000
anyone to talk to, we're always there.

545
00:30:14.400 --> 00:30:18.200
Yeah, So it's we are the Hansons. Like I said,

546
00:30:18.200 --> 00:30:20.000
we're gonna be a little bit more formal. We're gonna

547
00:30:20.000 --> 00:30:22.640
have some intros, some outros. I'm sure there's gonna be

548
00:30:22.640 --> 00:30:25.920
some people that, you know, want to have some books

549
00:30:26.000 --> 00:30:28.440
or something like that on the show. You know, maybe

550
00:30:28.440 --> 00:30:31.279
it's maybe it's cool stuff. Like we also want to

551
00:30:31.279 --> 00:30:33.640
touch on the things that we love doing. And I

552
00:30:33.680 --> 00:30:39.519
am an expert grill cook. I'm an expert officionado on

553
00:30:39.799 --> 00:30:44.039
the Smoker. There's other weird things about me, like I

554
00:30:44.119 --> 00:30:50.440
actually marry people. That's something that I do. Yeah, but

555
00:30:50.519 --> 00:30:51.039
what do you do?

556
00:30:52.799 --> 00:30:54.039
I chase kids around.

557
00:30:54.960 --> 00:30:58.000
Besides chasing kids around, I got to keep you in line.

558
00:30:58.680 --> 00:31:02.960
Well that's an easy job. No, what it is?

559
00:31:03.000 --> 00:31:05.440
What it is, folks, we want to welcome you to

560
00:31:05.920 --> 00:31:08.519
We are the Hansons. The things that we've got coming up.

561
00:31:08.559 --> 00:31:11.160
Can you tell the people some of the things that

562
00:31:11.200 --> 00:31:13.480
we're going to be talking about on the upcoming.

563
00:31:13.119 --> 00:31:15.720
Shows, parenting and.

564
00:31:18.000 --> 00:31:25.279
How to live life and juggle work and home life

565
00:31:25.960 --> 00:31:28.119
and just adventure.

566
00:31:27.839 --> 00:31:31.200
And sometimes all of those are at the exact same moment.

567
00:31:32.119 --> 00:31:34.599
Have you noticed that truth, they're all in the exact

568
00:31:34.599 --> 00:31:40.079
same movement, making money, living life, parenting, and you know,

569
00:31:40.200 --> 00:31:40.680
being a.

570
00:31:40.720 --> 00:31:43.400
Spouse are They're all required of.

571
00:31:43.359 --> 00:31:45.359
You at the same time. And some people say that

572
00:31:45.400 --> 00:31:48.079
it can't be done. Some people say that you can't

573
00:31:48.119 --> 00:31:50.680
spend enough one on one time with a large family.

574
00:31:50.720 --> 00:31:54.240
And I'm here to say I beg to differs. Yes,

575
00:31:54.359 --> 00:31:58.039
when it comes to parenting, when it comes to putting

576
00:31:58.119 --> 00:32:02.960
up with angry women, No, No, I'm just kidding. When

577
00:32:03.039 --> 00:32:07.599
it comes to loving your spouse, when it comes to

578
00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:12.559
putting your kids first, when it comes to raising healthy,

579
00:32:12.759 --> 00:32:16.839
happy and productive children, I would say we're both experts.

580
00:32:16.920 --> 00:32:21.759
And we're not only experts by going through this, we're

581
00:32:21.799 --> 00:32:24.000
experts because we still go through it.

582
00:32:24.599 --> 00:32:27.480
True, we have a lot of people that come to

583
00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:29.279
us for advice.

584
00:32:29.920 --> 00:32:32.480
Right, And I'm not saying that all our advice is

585
00:32:32.559 --> 00:32:34.200
right because a lot of the stuff that we do

586
00:32:34.319 --> 00:32:35.119
is work for us.

587
00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:39.240
But at least it will give people ideas.

588
00:32:39.000 --> 00:32:41.160
To start working on themselves because I think at the

589
00:32:41.240 --> 00:32:44.000
end of the day, it comes down do you want

590
00:32:44.000 --> 00:32:48.079
this with my marriage? I know that's what I thought.

591
00:32:48.119 --> 00:32:51.400
Do I want this? And the answer always comes back

592
00:32:51.440 --> 00:32:55.319
to absolutely, I want this because the good times always

593
00:32:55.319 --> 00:32:59.519
outweigh the bad times and sometimes you have to make

594
00:32:59.559 --> 00:33:00.920
the best with what you got.

595
00:33:01.839 --> 00:33:03.759
Yeah, we sure do.

596
00:33:04.720 --> 00:33:07.440
So that's the show for today. That's what we're going

597
00:33:07.480 --> 00:33:10.799
to be doing. Look for new shows coming soon. We

598
00:33:10.880 --> 00:33:14.720
appreciate you guys being there, and remember we are the Hansens.

599
00:33:15.279 --> 00:33:15.920
Have a good night.