WEBVTT
1
00:00:20.519 --> 00:00:23.519
Hey everyone, and welcome back to We are the Hansens.
2
00:00:23.679 --> 00:00:26.760
I'm your host, Mayah Hanson, and I am so glad
3
00:00:26.800 --> 00:00:30.199
you're here with me today. If this is your first
4
00:00:30.239 --> 00:00:34.520
time listening, welcome to our wild and beautiful life. We're
5
00:00:34.560 --> 00:00:38.880
big family, full of love, chaos, and moments that make
6
00:00:39.000 --> 00:00:43.000
everything worth it. Today I want to tell you about
7
00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:49.799
our weekend. Just us the water, fishing poles, splashing feet,
8
00:00:50.119 --> 00:00:55.039
and a lot of snacks, because, let's be real, snacks
9
00:00:55.200 --> 00:01:03.280
are the glue of a happy family outing. So, like
10
00:01:03.439 --> 00:01:07.359
every good family adventure that we take, our fishing and
11
00:01:07.439 --> 00:01:12.560
swimming weekends started with complete chaos. It always sounds simple,
12
00:01:13.159 --> 00:01:18.760
let's go fishing and swimming, but anyone with more than
13
00:01:18.840 --> 00:01:25.040
two kids knows there's nothing simple about it. We had
14
00:01:25.040 --> 00:01:28.719
to pack the towels, the sunscreen, the swim suits, the floaties,
15
00:01:28.799 --> 00:01:34.560
fishing poles, tackle boxes, extra clothes, snacks, drinks, bug spray,
16
00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:39.120
first aid kit, and oh yeah, the kids. The younger
17
00:01:39.200 --> 00:01:43.680
kids were running around the house in goggles and their
18
00:01:43.719 --> 00:01:48.040
floaties before we'd even left. One of them packed a
19
00:01:48.120 --> 00:01:53.079
toy to take with in her backpack so she would
20
00:01:53.079 --> 00:01:56.159
have something to play with. I love their imagination, but
21
00:01:57.319 --> 00:02:00.000
I had to gently explain that they didn't need their
22
00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:05.159
toys to survive because they're probably gonna sit in the
23
00:02:05.200 --> 00:02:08.639
backpack while we're playing in the lake. So we all
24
00:02:08.680 --> 00:02:14.560
piled into the car. Music was going, kids talking over
25
00:02:14.599 --> 00:02:17.479
each other, and my husband doing his best to keep
26
00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:23.960
us on schedule. I swear our car always turns into
27
00:02:24.199 --> 00:02:29.599
a traveling comedy club when we're all together. We had
28
00:02:30.360 --> 00:02:36.319
three separate vehicles that went and we took the two
29
00:02:36.360 --> 00:02:42.479
younger ones and their friend, while my oldest daughter, my
30
00:02:42.560 --> 00:02:46.719
two grand babies, and my younger daughter took her vehicle
31
00:02:47.759 --> 00:02:51.599
and we were all running. We were in front of
32
00:02:51.639 --> 00:02:54.719
the line, but the other ones were running behind us away.
33
00:02:54.919 --> 00:02:58.479
So it was kind of chaotic because after we left home,
34
00:02:59.000 --> 00:03:03.240
obviously you have to get bait for the fishing, so
35
00:03:03.319 --> 00:03:05.960
we had to stop at Walmart and we also had
36
00:03:06.000 --> 00:03:10.159
to grab some snacks and ice. But that's the magic.
37
00:03:11.240 --> 00:03:17.599
It's loud, yes, messy, absolutely, but it's us. We pulled
38
00:03:17.680 --> 00:03:22.599
up to this lake spot where we love to fish,
39
00:03:23.120 --> 00:03:26.439
kind of off the beaten path, you know, you got
40
00:03:26.439 --> 00:03:30.759
to travel down these long, windy roads and it's not
41
00:03:31.120 --> 00:03:34.280
crowded at all. We make a lot of memories there
42
00:03:35.199 --> 00:03:38.199
it's where some of our kids caught their first fish,
43
00:03:39.319 --> 00:03:43.599
you know, learned how to swim and played in the mud.
44
00:03:44.560 --> 00:03:47.840
The kids immediately scattered when we get there. They're like
45
00:03:48.000 --> 00:03:52.759
ants that we let loose from a farm. Some grabbed
46
00:03:53.680 --> 00:03:58.719
their chairs and rushed to the beach area, others headed
47
00:03:58.800 --> 00:04:02.080
straight for the water, and a few took their time
48
00:04:02.280 --> 00:04:07.360
picking the perfect rock to sit on while we snacked.
49
00:04:09.360 --> 00:04:13.039
I love watching them do their own thing while still
50
00:04:13.080 --> 00:04:18.879
being together. You can feel the bond. They're all connected,
51
00:04:19.000 --> 00:04:25.040
even in their independence, and fishing is always an adventure
52
00:04:25.199 --> 00:04:28.920
with our crew. The little ones are always more excited
53
00:04:28.920 --> 00:04:33.680
about the fish rather than the worms. They want to
54
00:04:33.759 --> 00:04:38.839
name them, and one was convinced the worm was dancing.
55
00:04:40.600 --> 00:04:44.079
We had a few tangled lines, which is fine. The
56
00:04:44.120 --> 00:04:50.040
water was high, there was some logs floating, and you know,
57
00:04:50.120 --> 00:04:54.959
a couple bobbers launched into trees and one very determined
58
00:04:55.040 --> 00:04:58.600
kid who yelled, I'm going to catch a shark in
59
00:04:58.639 --> 00:05:04.079
a freshwater lake. Dream big, kid, dream big. But honestly,
60
00:05:04.839 --> 00:05:07.920
some of them are getting really good at it. Keenan
61
00:05:09.000 --> 00:05:12.839
he caught a fish. Tristan he caught a decent sized fish.
62
00:05:13.279 --> 00:05:16.839
Colin caught a couple of decent sized fish, and Jeremy
63
00:05:17.000 --> 00:05:19.959
caught a couple of decent sized fish. And you should
64
00:05:19.959 --> 00:05:22.199
have seen the faces of the little ones when they
65
00:05:22.240 --> 00:05:27.040
seen the fish. One of the boys caught a fish
66
00:05:27.279 --> 00:05:30.040
and didn't have anything to put it in because somebody
67
00:05:30.079 --> 00:05:33.199
forgot the bucket in the car, so they set it
68
00:05:33.240 --> 00:05:36.480
on the bank and it flopped right back into the water.
69
00:05:36.639 --> 00:05:40.560
Well there goes that fish. Well let's just say it
70
00:05:40.680 --> 00:05:45.240
was technically the best fish that was caught that day.
71
00:05:45.319 --> 00:05:48.439
But oh well, the rest of us we were still proud.
72
00:05:50.319 --> 00:05:54.639
My husband had his line in the water and he
73
00:05:54.800 --> 00:05:58.839
decided to step in the water with his good shoes
74
00:05:59.160 --> 00:06:03.240
to get his line unhooked. So he came out of
75
00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:05.399
the water, took his shoes off, let him sit in
76
00:06:05.399 --> 00:06:09.800
the sun, and put his chair in the water, wearing socks,
77
00:06:09.879 --> 00:06:11.839
and walked in and sat down in his chair in
78
00:06:11.879 --> 00:06:13.920
the water while his feet and stuff were in the water.
79
00:06:14.879 --> 00:06:18.040
These are the moments I live for, guys. These are
80
00:06:18.120 --> 00:06:23.639
the moments I truly do enjoy. After fishing, it was
81
00:06:23.680 --> 00:06:27.399
time to just chill out, cool off. The kids ran
82
00:06:27.519 --> 00:06:30.800
into the water. Some moren kept jumping in off the
83
00:06:30.839 --> 00:06:35.839
little table thing that they have there, like they were
84
00:06:35.879 --> 00:06:40.800
being chased, and they pretended some of the logs that
85
00:06:40.879 --> 00:06:44.639
were floating were crocodiles. So there was a lot of
86
00:06:44.680 --> 00:06:49.279
screams of excitement and scared laughter echoing across the lake
87
00:06:49.519 --> 00:06:54.839
and the occasional mom look at this flip, even when
88
00:06:54.839 --> 00:06:59.600
it was more belly flop than flip. You know, the
89
00:06:59.639 --> 00:07:03.879
little ones usually stay close to the shore because they're
90
00:07:03.879 --> 00:07:06.639
a little scared still and the boat's going through and
91
00:07:06.720 --> 00:07:10.439
splashing on the up on the shore, you know, they
92
00:07:10.519 --> 00:07:15.920
get pretty big. And we just soaked in the sun
93
00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:20.480
and just hung out and chit chatted, and the older
94
00:07:20.560 --> 00:07:24.600
kids were busy fishing, and then right after fishing, they
95
00:07:24.639 --> 00:07:28.240
decided to take a dip. So that is always fun,
96
00:07:28.600 --> 00:07:34.399
you know, watching the kids play together, swim together, create
97
00:07:34.439 --> 00:07:44.759
an imagination that's you know, the best, and we enjoy it. Eventually,
98
00:07:44.839 --> 00:07:50.839
hunger hit like a tidal wave, and I just cut
99
00:07:50.879 --> 00:07:55.879
up the sandwiches, handed out juice boxes. We brought some fruit.
100
00:07:56.240 --> 00:08:03.279
Everybody got some fruit. Everybody devoured chips, you name it.
101
00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:07.879
We had it, cucumbers. That's when we had some of
102
00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:13.879
the best conversations. That's what food does. It brings us together,
103
00:08:14.439 --> 00:08:18.759
grounds us. One kid tells us stories about the monster
104
00:08:18.879 --> 00:08:22.199
fish that they swear they saw in the water. Another
105
00:08:22.279 --> 00:08:25.600
one started to debate about who was going to catch
106
00:08:25.639 --> 00:08:31.040
the next biggest fish. We laughed so much my cheeks hurt.
107
00:08:32.159 --> 00:08:38.279
The sun started to set, casting this golden glow on everything.
108
00:08:40.240 --> 00:08:46.039
We packed up with very tired kids wrapped in towels,
109
00:08:46.279 --> 00:08:49.480
and one last skip of a rock across the water
110
00:08:49.559 --> 00:08:54.240
it went. Of course, there was sand everywhere, someone lost
111
00:08:54.279 --> 00:08:57.360
their flip flop and another one had to go to
112
00:08:57.440 --> 00:09:00.799
the bathroom as soon as we pulled out onto the road.
113
00:09:01.679 --> 00:09:06.360
But I wouldn't trade it, any of it. These kinds
114
00:09:06.360 --> 00:09:10.879
of weekends remind me what family really means. It's not
115
00:09:11.039 --> 00:09:14.840
the big, fancy trips. It's the simple days in nature,
116
00:09:15.440 --> 00:09:19.840
the laughter, the mess and the quiet moments in between.
117
00:09:22.159 --> 00:09:29.440
So here's my little takeaway. Go even when it's chaotic,
118
00:09:30.559 --> 00:09:36.159
even when packing feels impossible, even when someone forgets the bait,
119
00:09:36.840 --> 00:09:42.440
just go, make the memories, get messy, let the kids
120
00:09:42.519 --> 00:09:46.840
run free, and let yourself breathe. Thanks for hanging out
121
00:09:46.840 --> 00:09:50.200
with me today on We are the Hansens. I hope
122
00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:53.519
our weekend story made you smile or reminded you of
123
00:09:53.559 --> 00:09:57.600
your own family. Adventure. If it did, please share this
124
00:09:57.759 --> 00:10:02.159
episode with a friend, or, better yet, go plan your
125
00:10:02.200 --> 00:10:05.679
own fishing and swimming weekend. You can get over to
126
00:10:05.759 --> 00:10:08.919
our YouTube channel and subscribe. You can send us an
127
00:10:08.960 --> 00:10:13.519
email at we Arethehansen's Show at gmail dot com. You
128
00:10:13.559 --> 00:10:16.919
can also send us a message on we are the
129
00:10:16.960 --> 00:10:21.879
Hansen's Facebook. Until next time, love your people well and
130
00:10:21.879 --> 00:10:23.360
find joy in the chaos.