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Hey everyone, it's maam. Welcome back to We are the Hansens.
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Today we're diving into one of our favorite family traditions.
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Our trips to the beach is always an adventure full
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of sand, snacks, sunscreen, and a whole lot of chaos.
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So grab a towel and maybe a juice box and
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settle in. Packing for a big family beach day feels
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like prepping for a camping trip, a grocery hall, and
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a trython all at once. Somehow, even when we pack
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fifteen towels, they vanish or someone brings a bath towel
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instead of a beach tall Every single time, there's the
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actual food, and then there are the snacks that keep
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the peace. The ratio of chips to sandwiches. Let's just
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say chips win for sure. No trip starts without someone
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yelling where's my other flip flop? That is an everyday thing.
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It takes strategy to pack our vehicle with big coolers
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in the back, beach toys on top, and the don't
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squish my chips warning from every row. The ride to
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the beach is always allowed in the best way, singing, laughing,
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and someone always asking are we there yet? Ten minutes
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into the drive, I hear I have to pee. Of
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course you do, sweetheart. Sometimes Dad says let's take the
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scenic rout, but we all know that means he missed
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his turn. The moment we see the water, everyone cheers.
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The vehicle goes from chaos to joy in one second flat.
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There's a science to finding the perfect beach spot shade
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view and not too close to the splash. Blankets, chairs, umbrellas, snacks.
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Everyone gets a job, or at least that's the theory.
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The magical moment when the kids toss their shoes and
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sprint full speed into the water, squealing the whole way.
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The chairs are unfolded, the drinks are opened, and we
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take a second to appreciate that calm before the first
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I'm hungry. There's always one kid who starts water fights
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and one who cries because their face gout wet. Unicorn sharks, donuts.
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Our family could supply a floaty rental stand. Why does
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everything taste like sand at the beach? No one knows,
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but we eat it anyway. We've got future architects in
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the family. Bridges towers until someone steps on it when
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they're building the sand castle. To make a sand kingdom.
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Every beach trip features at least one dramatic sibling argument
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over a shovel, a float, or who gets the last
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juice box. We call that the sibling showdown. Skipping rocks
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and skipping naps. Some kids try to skip rocks, others
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skip nap time. Neither goes very well. Watching our grandkids
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take their first brave steps into the water is magic.
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Dad's lifeguard lookout duty. Well he may not have a whistle,
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but Dad's got a hawkeye on the water like a
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true beach commander. My beach bag of wonders, band aids,
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some block snacks, white bees, toys, books. My beach b
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is bottomless because when you have all these kids, you
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need to have a lot of stuff. Trying to get
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a cute photo queue, the wind, the squinting, and the
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one kid who always does bunny ears. It's a never
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ending battle. Those big sibling moments when they carry a
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little one back to the towel, help them float, or
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hold their hand, pure heart melt. My kids are always
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good about that. They always help the little ones. They
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try and teach them how to swim. Our youngest Anelin
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learn how to swim because her older brother helped teach her.
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We call it a buffet on the sand. From peanut
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butter salm to watermelon slices. Beach lunches are their own
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brand of delicious. The great juice pout shortage who drink
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all the apple juice we may never know. Seagulls dramatic,
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loud and bold enough to steal a sandwich if you blink,
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because they're like scrounging for food. It's almost like they
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know that our food is yummy. After eating, we stretch
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out on towels, listen to the waves and pretend the
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kids aren't stepping on our legs with their dirty, sandy feet.
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No child wants onscreen, so every child fights with us
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to get it put on, and we have to obviously
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do it multiple times, because you know most of them
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only last an hour in the water. Every child needs it.
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The queue squirming and whining. They search with so much
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hope hunting for shells. Look found a sparkly rock, and
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we treasure every one of them. We take home more
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rocks and shells than I think anybody ever has. I
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mean buckets. If the kids can get it into the
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vehicle without us knowing, we'll have buckets full of them.
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Nature's playground. If we go to the ocean and catch crabs,
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sometimes we catch crawdad in our beach, weird seaweed. It's
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like a science class with splashes, you know, beach games
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with siblings, or if our cousins go, it's frisbee, water tag,
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sand soccer, marco polo, all chaos, but all so much fun.
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Between the wind, salt sun. Our beach hair becomes a
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wild thing, especially mine because I got natural curls. My
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daughter Morgan, her hair turns into a big fluff because
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she's got natural curls. And the weather, the humidity, loves us.
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Because of that. There's always a moment to pull one
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child aside, walk by the water and just talk heart
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to heart. Somehow, something always disappears. Always are losing stuff, bucket, goggle, shoe,
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It's part of the game. Late afternoon, the sun shifts,
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and so do we Tells turn into blankets for resting.
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By now everyone is a little pruny and a lot slower,
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but still begging for one more time in the water.
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The golden light over the lake is breathtaking and we
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all pause to soak it in. Late in the day,
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we team up and we do sand sculptures, castles, creatures,
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initials in the sand, you name it, we do that.
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These are the things we do to make our memories.
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A lot of times our kids say can we stay forever?
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At least one kid always asks, and honestly, we all
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wish we could packing up the sand sticks forever, no
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matter how many towels, no matter how many times the
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kids go to the water and wash their feet off
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and obviously run back to their shoes to put their
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shoes on, you know, because you're trying to keep the
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sand off your feet. The sand still goes over your
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shoes unless you're putting on tennis shoes. But even then,
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sand is still hard to get out. My younger kids
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come home probably with ten pounds of sand in their hair.
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It's not fun trying to get out, and honestly, it
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takes more than probably five baths to get all the
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sand out of their hair, and we probably still have
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some sand in there. So it's definitely not easy, you know,
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as crazy as it gets packing a vehicle full of
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kids hauling beach gear like we're moving across the country
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and chasing toddlers who somehow managed to cover themselves in
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wet sand and under one minute. These trips are the
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ones will remember forever. They're the snapshots that live in
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our hearts. The laughter, the water fights and sandy sandwiches,
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they're all part of the story. We're riding together, one
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beach day at a time, and I wouldn't change it
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for anything, nothing, because those memories. Yeah, we might not
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remember everything we did at the beach, but the most
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important memory that we do remember are the ones that
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will never forget. And I want all of my kids
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to create those memories and I want them to carry
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on with how we did it to their own family,
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because that's important because your kids will always look back
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and say, you know what, I remember my parents doing that,
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or I remember my grandparents doing that, and that's supposed
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to be how it is. Thanks for spending time with
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me as I shared some of our favorite moments from
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our beach adventures. Whether you've got one kid or thirteen,
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whether you're beach is a lake, a backyard, kiddie pool,
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or just a blanket on the grass, what matters is
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being together, unplugged and present. If you enjoyed today's episode,
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own beach traditions or funny family memories, I'd love to
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hear about them. You can send me a message on
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Show at gmail dot com. Until next time, I'm Maya
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and from our big, beautiful, chaotic family to yours, go
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make some memories, Splash big, laugh loud, and don't forget
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the sunscreen. We'll see you soon. We are the Hansens
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Bounty a let