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Hey, everyone, welcome back to We are the Hansens. I
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am so glad you're here today because this episode is
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going to be pure fun. Sometimes life gets busy, sometimes
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it gets stressful, But today I want to celebrate all
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the shenanigans and excitements that make our homes such a loud, joyful,
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and sometimes absolutely hilarious place to be. Life in a
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household of kids isn't just about routines, schedules, and responsibilities.
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It's about those unpredictable, sometimes chaotic, often silly moments that
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remind us why family life is so special. So grab
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your coffee, sit back, and let's dive into the fun
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side of our crazy world. First of all, let's just
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be honest. Some days feel like we are running a
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full on circus over here, and I mean that in
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the best way. You walk into our kitchen at any
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given time and there's probably a science experiment happening on
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the counter, someone trying to bake cookies without a recipe,
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and the littles wearing superhero cape claiming to have just
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saved the cat from a certain doom, and for the record,
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the cat was just sleeping. We have them days, sometimes
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without even meaning to one afternoon, everyone decided it was
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speak only in accents day, and for all four hours
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our house sounded like an international airport. I don't even
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know who started it. I think I probably did. All
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I know is my seven year old was running around
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with the thickest accent, sounded like British that you've ever heard,
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offering people a spot of tea, while my teenagers were
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speaking weird voices. Trying to keep a straight face when
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you're trying to parent while your kid is calling you
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Captain Mum and asking for extra plunder with their snack.
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There's always something spontaneous happening, and honestly, I wouldn't trade
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it for anything. And don't even get me started on
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family game nights. You think monop he gets heated, try
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a round of handsome family charades. Somehow, no matter what
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the prompt is climbing a mountain, brushing teeth, building a house,
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the kids always turn it into an elaborate dramatic performance.
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I'm talking fake injuries, slow motion falls, full on Oscar
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worthy scenes and hide and seek in the house our size.
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Let's just say it becomes an extreme sport. One time
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I couldn't find our youngest for about twenty five minutes.
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I was this close to panicking, thinking she had gotten outside. Nope,
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she was hiding inside the laundry basket, underneath a full
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load of clean clothes, just breathing so quietly, absolutely thrilled
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with her herself that she could hide that way. That
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was her best hiding spot. Ever. I'm pretty sure my
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blood pressure has never fully recovered. And then there are
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the nights when we make up games on the fly,
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like Guess the Noise, where someone makes a sound and
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everyone else has to guess what it is. If you've
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never heard of a seven year old try to mimic
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the sound of a blender, you're missing out. Another part
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of the excitement the wild idea that somehow became tradition.
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It all started one rainy Saturday when everyone was bored
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and one of the kids said, let's turn the living
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room into a campground. In two hours flat, we had
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every pillow, blanket and chair stacked and arranged into a
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makeshift tent. We roasted marshmallows in the oven and told
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ghost stories by flashlight. Now it's a thing, raindy day camping.
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It's raining and we have nowhere to be. You can
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guarantee our living room will be fully transformed by sundown backwards,
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dinner nights before we desert first, and dinner last. It
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started as a reward for a particularly tough school week,
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and now the kids will ask for it at the
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most random times, and honestly, it's a great reminder to
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just lighten up sometimes and enjoy life out of order.
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And let's talk about the noise for a second, because
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if you walk into our house, you will immediately hear it, laughter, shouting,
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singing at the top of our lungs to some song.
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Half the kids don't even know the words to, screaming,
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someone else yelling that the dogs stole their sock. It's
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not always organized, it's not always peaceful, but our home
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is alive and we love it. There's so much love
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in the noise, and there's so much life in the
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chaos in our home. I think sometimes when people think
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about big families, they imagine constant overwhelm, And sure, there
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are moments like that, but mostly it's just a lot
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of little moments stacked on top of each other, a
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pile of memories being built every single day. Here a
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note past during dinner that says you're the best mom
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a fort so elaborate you have to crawl under it
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just to get to the couch. A water fight that
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started because someone accidentally spilled a glass of water and
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no one could let it go. All those silly, crazy, loud,
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messy moments, that's the heartbeats of our family. Just a
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little here that I want to share is when people
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come to our house, they know that our house is
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not organized. It's messy, and it's not like filthy messy.
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It's just there's toys all over, and most of the
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time the kids will pick up their toys. Sometimes you'll
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find a tablet laying on the couch, or shoes just
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tossed off, or a towel throwing randomly wherever. Because the
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girls will go play in the rain come in and
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just drop their stuff. There is not a time that
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there ain't a toy or a ball or something laying
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on our floor. We have kids. That's what our house
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is all about. Regardless of what anybody thinks, our house
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is lived in, and it's very lived in with love.
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Our family shares craziness with people that come over. People
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see our family and I know they think that we
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are just a chaotic family, and we are. We are
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not a family that just sits around. We do something
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all the time. Whether it be playing games or building forwards,
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or cooking or baking or you name it, we're doing it.
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And if we're not doing it at home, we're out
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and about. We're at the park, we're at the mall,
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We're at the fishing hole, we're at the swimming hole.
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We do so much. There ain't a dull moment in
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our home. And I would never ever trade that for
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anything because it is fun. It keeps us as parents young,
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It keeps us going, and we never get bored. Whether
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it could be a movie night or whatever. We do it.
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You know those moments when you think you're being a
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responsible adult and then it just absolutely falls apart in
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the funniest way possible. Yeah, that's basically Tuesday at our house.
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Like the time I thought I was going to be
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a cool mom and set up an elaborate DIY obstacle
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course in the backyard. I spent hours setting it up.
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Hula hoops to jump through, ropes to crawl under, a
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slip and slide at the end. I even made little
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metals out of cardboard and ribbon. I was ready for
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Parent of the Year. And then the very first kid
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running through trips in the mud puddle that I didn't
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even see slips takes out half the obstacle course. With them,
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it was like family Jenga. Down goes to hula hoops,
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the rope snaps, the slip and slide gets dragged halfway
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across the yard, and the dog is losing his mind
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thinking it's the best game he's ever seen. We laughed
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so hard we couldn't breathe. No one finished the course,
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and no one cared. We all got metals anyway. And
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don't think the kids don't come up with their own
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k oh No, they are very capable little instigators. One
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of their favorite games is the classic prank warse no
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one is safe. You could walk into a room and
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find a plastic spider dangling from the ceiling. You could
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sit down and find your chair has been wrapped with
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saran wrap. You could open the fridge and find well,
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let's just say, googly eyes on everything. One time, one
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of the older kids switched to everyone's shoes. Two left
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shoes in one closet, two right shoes in another. It
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took hours before anyone figured it out. And if you
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think the littles don't get in on it, oh they do.
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They're just sneakier about it because everyone thinks they're innocent.
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Moral of the story. If you hear suspicious giggling, you're
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already too late. So today I just wanted to celebrate
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the beauty of the Shenanigans. We live in a world
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that tells us to have everything perfect, organized, instagram worthy.
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But honestly, I think the muddy footprints, the toothpaste on
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the mirror, the forts in the living room, backwards dinners,
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the socks stealing dog, the pirate themed charades, because that's real.
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That's family, that's home. If you're listening today and your
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house is feeling chaotic, noisy and messy, just know you're
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not alone. That noise, that chaos, that's love and action.
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It's life being lived fully and joyfully. Thanks for hanging
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out with us today. I hope you smiled, maybe laughed
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a little, and remembered that the best memories are almost
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never made during perfect days. They're made in the Shenanigans.
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Hanson's Show at gmail dot com. Until next time, keep loving,
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keep laughing, keep enjoying the chaos. We are the Hansens
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and this is our beautiful, messy, exciting life.